March 2017 – The Jay colby Show

March 31, 2017 The Jay Colby Show Uncategorized

Should Marriage Be A Goal?

In today’s society the social norm to get married has lessen over the past few decades. In past generations marriage was seen as a turn of passage for all young adults. However, it seems as if marriage is not in the forefront of people today. Many people date for years move in together, but are not in a rush to get married. Do you believe marriage should be a goal?

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March 25, 2017March 24, 2017 The Jay Colby Show Life, Love, Relationships

Online Dating: Good or Bad Idea?

The boom of the internet and social media online dating has become more and more common. Once fringed on embarrassment and stigmatized for such activity now there are billions of people given online dating a try. Since it’s beginning starting in 1995 with Match.com online dating had effective the world of dating in a major way in it’s twenty-one years of existence.

Good or Bad?

Some may argue that is online dating isn’t really a good thing and has made dating harder and taken away the romance in the dating process. Also if we meet our significant other online we might miss the opportunity to tell the cliché story how we met on a college campus or at a grocery store? On the other-hand some would say online dating has made dating easier, and more effected. By decreasing the chances of those nervous or awkward moments that can occur during social interaction. So today we will share some positives and negatives of online dating.

Positives:

Find out some of the red flags or crazy people out a little faster: You can spot them pretty easily by aggressive, impatient/inappropriate messages, interests that could include but not limited to “killing dogs on the weekend”, “not having any goals for their life” etc. Think about all of the time you can save and all of the locks you won’t have to change.
Realizing you’re not alone: Sometimes being single can make you feel like the loneliest person in the world and the thought alone of dating seems like an exhausting chore. But then spend five minutes swiping through singles in your area on Tinder and you realize that not only are you not alone

Negatives:

Relationships or Sex?: This is by far the biggest pitfall of online dating. This has become problematic because it has made asking for just “sex” easier online than in person.
Catfish: If you are not familiar with this term and want to online date I suggest you Google it. This term was coined after a popular TV show that was on MTV. It basically means someone who pretends to be someone they’re not by creating false identities, particularly to pursue deceptive online romances.

In the end online dating can be a great way to meet and potential date someone but it can be some downsides as well. Would you try online dating? Would you recommend online dating for others to try? Comment below & if you liked this post please share!

March 25, 2017March 24, 2017 The Jay Colby Show Life, Love, Relationships

Why Do Men Lie?

This topic has been a hot-button subject for a number of years. Causing a lot of women to have discussions which often differ in opinions and views. In many cases men and people in general lie for a various number of reasons. Some may argue that people who lie have a sociological issue that may be deep-rooted from experience that they have had in their lives. So today we will share the top five reasons why men lie.

To Avoid Getting Caught:

Nobody wants to get caught doing something they know they shouldn’t and have to face the music. This is human nature and it’s true of both men and women. However, some men have a certain way of misconstruing their words to cause confusion and in some cases to the blame to their partner.

Enhance or Improve Themselves:

Many times men lie because they want to Impress a woman you could almost look at this one as a compliment (ALMOST). This often happens because the guy might not feel “good enough” as he is to be his true self.

For Sex or The Chance to Get Sex:

Most men realize that simply saying all he wants is sex is not always the most effective approach to getting it. It may work sometimes, but typically it will work against him. This is why men lie to get sex.

To Win an Argument:

Many times men lie to win an argument or to get want they want. By using reverse psychology or lying as a tool to get what they want. Whether on a first date or while enduring your one-year anniversary, one could delicately talk himself up. Often times men use this tactic while at the club or bar trying to start up a conversation.

Past Experiences from Past Relationships:

Sometimes men have had negative experiences with their exes and have been conditioned to lie to avoid drama. For example, if a man always got flack from his ex-girlfriend for spending too much time with the guys, he might have become accustomed to lying about it.So now, he might tell you he’s staying late at the office when he’s really going out for happy hour with his friends.

March 24, 2017March 24, 2017 The Jay Colby Show Goals, Life, Love, Motivation, Quotes, Success

7 Quotes To Move Forward Past Heartache & Pain

In life we all go through heartache, pain, difficult situations and just plain life obstacles. No matter how strong of person we are sometimes we can get discourage and contemplate giving up. Regardless, of what we go through in life the only thing that will always remain true is we all have went through pain in some-sort. Here are 5 quotes to help anyone get pasted heartache and pain.

“Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard.”

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving.”

“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.”

“Vulnerability is the only authentic state. Being vulnerable means being open, for wounding, but also for pleasure. Being open to the wounds of life means also being open to the bounty and beauty. Don’t mask or deny your vulnerability: it is your greatest asset. Be vulnerable: quake and shake in your boots with it. The new goodness that is coming to you, in the form of people, situations, and things can only come to you when you are vulnerable, i.e. open.”

“No matter what you go through always remember trouble don’t last always”

“Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.”

“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”

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March 3, 2017 The Jay Colby Show Uncategorized

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